“Stability:” a term that is constantly redefined in our modern society. To achieve stability, some would claim that you must follow a path determined by long-term plans, a four-year college, mortgages, and a solid job. Others think that stability is finding your spouse in college, getting married by 25, and having your first baby by 26. None of these are incorrect or the wrong way to go, but in my world, “stability” is more akin to comfort, and is largely driven by passion for the path that I choose—whatever that may be. As more opportunities become available to our generation, the more we should consider the value of potentially unconventional lifestyles, like van life and boat life. Traditional routes might not give the freedom, mobility, and sense of purpose that these alternatives do. Though I admit, the planning, timing, and logistics of these lifestyles are not ideal, the allure of living on the road or at sea is genuine and should be carefully considered by high school students who are starting to plan their futures.
To put it simply, van life encourages independence and humility. I believe that van life promotes a simple way of living, where people can experience nature, travel freely, and develop an appreciation for things that are not material belongings. These values are greatly beneficial to hold—especially at a young age—and create conscious, humble beings. In a world of rampant consumer culture, and material things representing wealth and status, removing yourself from this society to experience life in its rawest form, is something incredibly exciting and worthwhile. Similar values are offered by boat life, but open water is traded for roads. Seeing a new coastline every day when you wake up or a peaceful harbor can be incredibly satisfying.
Despite the appeals, there are significant obstacles to both lifestyles. Van life necessitates mechanical expertise, ongoing maintenance, and the capacity to live without modern conveniences. Boat life requires the ability to navigate, be aware of the weather, and manage confined spaces. Isolation and instability are genuine issues in both situations.
These are brave commitments, not simple ways out. These lifestyles are often mistaken for an escape method, or an attempt to avoid the realities of life. While I am sure that is true in some cases, I firmly contend that the fundamental lessons and outlook on life make the experience valuable—no matter the initial reason. Van and boat life can be empowering ways to develop for students who value independence, travel, and a nontraditional life plan, yet preparation and asking what kind of life feels meaningful to you are crucial first steps. Although these options do not appeal to everyone, they provide a potent means of living according to one’s own terms, for those who are prepared to deviate from the norm.
Living in a van or on a boat develops self-reliance, patience, and resourcefulness—skills that are useful for anyone, no matter what their future holds. It is about choosing a different way to carry responsibility, not about letting it go. Choosing the less-traveled path isn’t about recklessness—it’s about intention. In a world that prizes flexibility and original thinking, it might just be the most grounded decision a person can make.
